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Divorce Is Much Easier Before Kids
As I discuss often, the honeymoon stage lasts about 1.5-3 years after commitment, which means that many struggling couples drop out of this “drunk on love” stage at the same time that they have just...
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10 Types of Women Every Guy Dates Before Meeting The One
Guys, it is a tough dating world out there. There are loads of girls you have to go through before finding Ms. Right. Good thing you don’t particularly mind dating lots of different women. It will...
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10 Types Of Guys Women Date Before Finding “The One”
Before they find The One, most women have experiences with a whole parade of Not The Ones. Although some of these guys are fun, you just know in your heart that they aren’t Mr. Right. But no woman’s...
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Do Not Marry An Emotionally Unavailable Man: He Won’t Get Better But You Will
Many young women marry guys who are emotionally unavailable because they have low self-esteem. Thankfully, in the future most of them develop higher self-esteem. But the downside to this is that when...
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Why To Ask Personal Questions On Your First Date
Many people advise to keep first dates light and carefree. This means not asking any “personal” questions, including about religion or politics. As a couples therapist, I believe exactly the opposite,...
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Why Do Some Women Get Treated “Like Princesses” And Others Don’t?
A lot of women believe that “all men are jerks,” which is as inaccurate as when men think that “all women are selfish” or any other broad generalization. (To men who believe the latter, I provide you...
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The Gentleman Eunuch: How To Stop Attracting Women Who Aren’t Sexually Open
Listen to a podcast episode about this topic here! Many guys just blame their partner or fate for their sexless marriages, but this is intellectually lazy. The men who end up in better relationships,...
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Ways To Tell A Man Will Take Care Of You
This podcast episode, When Men Don’t Take Care Of You, was so popular that I felt I should expand on it. Here I discuss how you need to look out for red flags that a man will never take of you; the...
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Ask Your Boyfriend To Do Stuff For You
As I’ve written and spoken about a lot lately, many women find it hard to find a man who wants to take care of them. However, they also don’t consciously search for a man who wants to do things for...
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Don’t Marry Someone Who Looks Down On You (Or Who You Look Down On)
Often, people come into counseling because they look down on their partner or feel their partner looks down on them. Some of the areas that meet with condescension are a partner’s looks, intelligence,...
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You Cannot Make A Spouse More Romantic, BUT…
There are many types of couples where one is more romantic than the other. Some of these pairings work better than others. In a pursuer-distancer dynamic, one partner has a preoccupied attachment...
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When You And Your Spouse Meet While Partying
Many couples that I work with struggle with the same issues as couples who started in long distance relationships, but they were never long distance! I wondered what these other couples all have in...
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Do Not Marry A Man Who Regularly Turns Down Sex
More and more women I see are the higher-libido partner in their marriage. As discussed in this guest post, it feels hopeless and lonely for women with partners who don’t want sex. All of pop culture...
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If You Need To Have The Power In Your Relationship, Know This Before You Marry
Since many people told me that my article on knowing if you’re the “difficult” one in the relationship resonated with them, I thought I would expand into the territory of knowing if you need to have...
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Your Wife’s Libido Drops In Monogamy… But What If You Turn Into A NEW MAN?
If you’re a faithful reader of this blog or observer of your own sex life, it is likely obvious to you by now that women’s libido drops precipitously within monogamy. Even the approximately 1/3 of...
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“Men Don’t Like High Achieving/Earning Women” Is Not True
Many of my clients are high achieving and high earning people. While males in this situation consider it an obvious benefit on the dating market to be perceived as having a high powered job and...
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Faking Orgasms Is A Good Way To Ruin Your Relationship
Many women think that faking orgasms, or telling their husband they enjoyed sex when they didn’t, is a good way to make him happy and doesn’t hurt anyone. This is extremely wrong. Every lie about...
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Men: Here Are 9 Things That Women Really Think About All Day
Most of my work with male clients surrounds helping them have more fulfilling relationships with their wives. If they are single, a lot of the reason they come into therapy is to figure out how to get...
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4 Things Men Look For In Women Post-Divorce
After reading this post on how women like more sensitive men after divorce, a reader asked how men’s priorities and preferences change when they are looking for partners post-divorce. Comparing my...
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How To Find A Great Partner On Dating Apps After Divorce
Reader Divorced Mom writes, I have read in your blog where you encourage people to think about dating apps and that you found success this way. Could you give some guidance on how to navigate dating...
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