Don’t Marry Someone Who Looks Down On You (Or Who You Look Down On)
Often, people come into counseling because they look down on their partner or feel their partner looks down on them. Some of the areas that meet with condescension are a partner’s looks, intelligence,...
View ArticleAsk Your Boyfriend To Do Stuff For You
As I’ve written and spoken about a lot lately, many women find it hard to find a man who wants to take care of them. However, they also don’t consciously search for a man who wants to do things for...
View ArticleWays To Tell A Man Will Take Care Of You
This podcast episode, When Men Don’t Take Care Of You, was so popular that I felt I should expand on it. Here I discuss how you need to look out for red flags that a man will never take of you; the...
View ArticleThe Gentleman Eunuch: How To Stop Attracting Women Who Aren’t Sexually Open
Listen to a podcast episode about this topic here! Many guys just blame their partner or fate for their sexless marriages, but this is intellectually lazy. The men who end up in better relationships,...
View ArticleWhy Do Some Women Get Treated “Like Princesses” And Others Don’t?
A lot of women believe that “all men are jerks,” which is as inaccurate as when men think that “all women are selfish” or any other broad generalization. (To men who believe the latter, I provide you...
View ArticleWhy To Ask Personal Questions On Your First Date
Many people advise to keep first dates light and carefree. This means not asking any “personal” questions, including about religion or politics. As a couples therapist, I believe exactly the opposite,...
View ArticleDo Not Marry An Emotionally Unavailable Man: He Won’t Get Better But You Will
Many young women marry guys who are emotionally unavailable because they have low self-esteem. Thankfully, in the future most of them develop higher self-esteem. But the downside to this is that when...
View Article10 Types Of Guys Women Date Before Finding “The One”
Before they find The One, most women have experiences with a whole parade of Not The Ones. Although some of these guys are fun, you just know in your heart that they aren’t Mr. Right. But no woman’s...
View Article10 Types of Women Every Guy Dates Before Meeting The One
Guys, it is a tough dating world out there. There are loads of girls you have to go through before finding Ms. Right. Good thing you don’t particularly mind dating lots of different women. It will...
View ArticleDivorce Is Much Easier Before Kids
As I discuss often, the honeymoon stage lasts about 1.5-3 years after commitment, which means that many struggling couples drop out of this “drunk on love” stage at the same time that they have just...
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